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Hello! I’m Bede—a mother, partner, and someone who believes in the power of resilience and community.

As a mom, my days are filled with love, laughter, and the beautiful chaos of raising a family. My daughter and girlfriend are my greatest joys and motivation, inspiring me to live my best life every single day.

Life has thrown its fair share of challenges my way. I was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes in 2001, at just 7 years old. For 23 years, I’ve been navigating this journey, and while it’s made me stronger, it remains a daily struggle—a constant reminder of resilience and perseverance.

But amidst life’s challenges, there are moments of pure joy. In 2021, I welcomed my beautiful baby girl into the world—a gift that inspires me every single day.

Through it all, I’ve learned that life’s hardships don’t define us; they shape us. That’s why I created transparentoverload.com—a space where everyone can come together, embrace their unique identities, and find strength in community.

This website isn’t just mine—it’s ours. A place where men and women can share their stories, chat with like-minded individuals, and support one another through life’s ups and downs. No matter where you are in your journey, you’re welcome here.

Thank you for being a part of this community. Together, we can inspire and empower one another to face life’s challenges head-on.